How To Approach A Woman!
There is an amazing amount of literature out there these days on the relevancy of the attractions to a woman and how the guy goes about the process of “how to approach a woman“.
The majority of the articles I have come across over the years, covered topics like, self confidence, body language, eye contact, dating etc.
Now all of these play major rolls in the process of dating, but I didn’t find very many in depth articles on feelings and there rolls with ways to approaching women.
Here are some ideas on the importance of feelings related to approaching women.
It wasn’t till I worked out this one key element that everything changed.
That one critical piece of information is:
Attraction For Women is a Feeling, Not a Thought.
If you can make her feel the way she wants to feel, then she will be approachable and attracted to you.
If you can’t, then she won’t.
This might not seem like it’s a point of relevancy, but it’s huge with relation to how to approaching women.
In fact, it might even seem obvious.
But this idea has the capacity to change everything you think you know about eye contact, body language, self confidence, and approaching women.
The standard model for how to attract women to you, is to learn a set of actions that you can apply in any situation of approaching women.
The fact that attraction is a feeling, not a thought, makes this method of how to approach a woman plausible.
Different women want to feel different things.
Is an 21 year old party girl who’s strong minded, confident, and outgoing want to feel the same way as a quiet, reserved, book-worm would?
Is a 34 year old childless lawyer who’s conscious of her biological clock going to want to feel the same way as
a 46 year old divorcee who’s kids have graduated from college and who is ready to bring back her youth?
There’s no one set of actions, mindsets or tactics that are going to allow a woman to feel the way she wants to feel because not all women want to feel the same way.
The way women (and guys for that matter) want to feel is determined by how they currently feel.
If they feel alone then they’re most likely going to want to feel connected.
If they feel powerless then they’re probably going to want to feel safe.
If they feel strong, confident, and bored then they’re probably going to feel excited.
How a woman feels determines how she wants to feel.
You can’t help a woman feel the way she wants to feel without paying attention to how she currently feels.
This gets a little more complicated because…
Women can change their feelings rapidly, day to day, or even in the moment.
Hopefully, by now, you can see that this is a pointless question on approaching women.
- Your actions don’t determine how attracted she is to you. The way you’re performing those actions is the key component.
- There’s no one set of actions that works with approaching women because there’s no one specific feeling that all women are chasing.
This might seem like it’s a bit complicated, but it’s not.
It’s actually the most natural and simple thing you can do. In fact, I’d be willing to bet that you have done this more than once, even without you thinking about it.
It happens when you’re focused enough on the woman in front of you (rather than stuck in your head trying to come up with the next awesome thing to say) to notice what she’s going through…
…and you decide to put your needs aside and give her what she wants (rather than trying to trick her into wanting to be with you).
And this in turn reveals the true you! Thank you for reading my articles on How To Approach A Woman.
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