Everywhere you look these days it seems there are a lot of people writing about ideas and tips on how to approach women. It has been
astonishing how many articles and e-books are touting the simple old adage of confidence.
For most people personal confidence is not something that you get from reading hype about it. There are a lot of
personal variables at play with it, that make your own confidence feel good to yourself internally and externally.
Is there truth in it, or is it just confidence hype on the topic, how to approach women ?
Always relate your eye contact and approach to the context of what she is doing, reading books etc., not only so it is
geared towards her situation, but also so you seem less like a stalker and more like someone is genuinely interested.
However, only one has the power to impress, show confidence, and earn a woman’s trust at the same time.
So what opener has the power to do all that to a woman?
After confident eye contact, A Direct Opener with confidence.
Direct openers unlike other openers reveal your intent right away.
Even though it is simple and honest there is a right and wrong way to do it.
When used the right way it will usually give you the woman’s attention unless she just doesn’t like you or lacks confidence in you.
Whereas when it is used the wrong way it will only work if she already likes you.
So what is the right and wrong way to use the direct opener?
That’s a very good question and you deserve the answer right now.
The Right Way to approach women fearlessly ;
“Hi, I like you and want to get to know you better. My name is.”
The Wrong Way with how to approach women;
“Hi, I like you. My name is.”
Of course the difference in this case between right and wrong is less is not more.
When you make eye contact and tell a woman that you like her and then introduce yourself, you have revealed nothing to her that she cares about.
In her mind she is going to say “so what” or “and”.
Yet, by just adding what it is that you want which is to get to know her you actually have answered her unasked question and essentially showed confidence and opened the door to begin communicating with her.
Instead of her thinking in her mind “and” or “so what”, she is now thinking that it is time that you prove it and more importantly “what if he doesn’t like me”.
Now she has something at stake as well if you prove it.
In the end it is important to realize that openers only can open the door of opportunity with a woman and that door can easily be closed if you don’t know how to communicate with a woman.
And you have to master the steps first of eye contact and how to approach women before you’re able to get to that door.
However, once you learn how to communicate with confidence, success with women will come quite naturally.
These are some excerpts that I have learned over time that work for me, making confident eye contact, and approach women fearlessly. There is nothing more awesome than when you level the playing field, and you can just be yourself. Here is a great program: how to approach women